Throughout his life, my grandfather George wrote to people who inspired him, often receiving wonderful typed or handwritten responses from people such as actor Laurence Olivier, politician Harold Wilson, golfer Tom Watson and even one from Michael Bond, author of the Paddington books, complete with bear paw inkblots.
In my recently co-authored book, Focus on Why*, I included a letter my grandfather wrote to former President Carter who passed on December 29 2024. This is what George wrote:
Dear President Carter
A word of friendship and thanks to you from a small family in this
country for all you have done and tried to do during your Presidency.
Not only for the country, for the world.
It is perhaps an impertinence to address a Head of State in this
way, perhaps naive to feel that it is worth doing. But many things are
left unsaid in life – ‘thank you’ most frequently – and the gap they
leave can seem to yawn.
In brief we feel that a good man has done a fine job. It would be
a pity if, because that sentence were not written and despatched to
you, that your worth and effort had not been valued and appreciated.
Please, therefore accept this as the hand of friendship extended
to you and to your wife from six of us on this side of the Atlantic.
Yours sincerely
George and Ruth Kerr
Catharine (daughter) and Tony Hutton
Amy and Toby Hutton (grandchildren)
Just like President Carter and my grandfather George, your actions and expressions of gratitude can leave a lasting legacy. Thoughtful communication not only enriches lives in the present but also inspires future generations to value and practice gratitude.
Sincerity in communication, whether to a world leader, an author or a friend can create meaningful connections. Regardless of status or context, authentic words resonate deeply and remind us of our shared humanity.
Don’t leave things unsaid. Express gratitude often and observe the positive impact it has on both yourself and others. Saying thank you and accepting compliments builds trust, rapport and stronger relationships, enhances self-esteem, keeps you present and triggers the release of the feel-good neurotransmitters serotonin and dopamine.
Be grateful, say thank you, say it often!
Focus on your legacy of thoughtfulness. Focus on Why!
Happy New Year!
Amy
ACTION POINT: What might you have left unsaid that really needs addressing today?
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